Real, lasting change always comes from the inside. It doesn't come from wanting to please others. It doesn't come from comparing yourself to those around you. It doesn't come from someone pushing you to make changes you're not committed to making. Real change, as well as "great things", will begin to happen when you decide to look inside yourself and decide you're ready for that change. When you decided you WANT it and you're ready to WORK for it. That choice, that decision, won't come from an outside force, but from inside of YOU. When you break that shell, you allow yourself to unlock the greatness inside!